What are your birth types?

Our birth types play vital roles as a playground for the beginning of our lives. Some types may create greater challenges or traumas than others, which we will have the opportunity to transcend during our lifetime.

Discover your experienced birthing patterns?

Curious? Find out in this reading.

A) Birth and delivery

1) Standard

I don’t matter. I don’t make a difference, I don’t matter.

Characteristics: There can always be trauma following these births, even if they were considered normal within the medical profession. The mother may well say that the delivery was “not serious, nothing unusual”.

• Greater ease in life.

2) Caesarean section

Emergency: I must be rescued. I can’t do it.

Characteristics : I feel interrupted, misunderstood, angry. I may have trouble getting projects off the ground.

• Create constant interruption and work well in multi-tasking environments.
• Having trouble finishing things.
• Fear of completion, which for them is like death. I survive by being incomplete.
• Skipping steps and not understanding why others can’t see the easier way.
• Fear/fascination of knives.
• May want or hate to touch it.
• Can set up situations where they need to be “bailed out” or rescued.
• Things can be easy. I get help when I need it.

3) Seat / buttocks

I have to hurt people to live. I hurt the people I love. I am guilty. I am wrong (if turned in the womb).

Caractéristiques:

• Tend to be afraid of hurting people.
• Tend to do things the wrong way or the hard way.
• Struggle in relationships.
• Tend to wrestle.
• What thought prompted them to turn around and go back into the womb?
• Why did they want to get out?
• Do it in my own unique way. Can take on challenges, difficulties and get through them in life.

4) Umbilical cord around the neck

In order to survive, I almost have to die.

Characteristics: Suicide attempt by the baby? What was he trying to do? What was going on around them before birth? Unwanted sex, unwanted baby, death of a family member?

• High mortality/suicide rate.
• Confusion between life and death.
• Cut off from emotions; in the head.
• Tends to self-sabotage. Can hold back. Come out like death.
• I can do it (because I survived birth).

5) Provoked

I can’t do it myself. What I want doesn’t matter. My needs don’t matter.

Features:

• Feel very controlled by others.
• Resist control and manipulation by others.
• Can feel restrained – wanting revenge while holding back.
• Won’t do what you want them to do.
• Get others to act, and then get angry.
• I came here but I don’t really want to be here yet.
• Easily angered.
• Difficult to initiate, but can be excellent for follow-up.
• People are there to help me if I need it.

6) with medication (picotine, epidural, etc.)

Many possible imprints. I must be dead/unconscious in order to live. I must suppress my vitality in order to live. I have to do it myself.

Features:

• May have chemical/alcohol dependency.
• Feel disconnected, foggy, spacey.
• Born and feel half alive, half asleep.
• Need more air. May fall asleep while breathing. Sometimes feel a release during anesthesia.
• Benefit from a cold water breathing session.
• Impulse to clean, to work with cold water, to obtain more vital energy.

7) Ventouse or Forceps

I can’t do it myself. People are out to get me. The help I get is painful. I need more support to stay alive, but it hurts. I want to do it myself, but I can’t. I don’t trust the support of others. I don’t trust people’s support. Resistance and/or anger against authority figures. I must be doing something wrong or else why would they come looking for me.

Caractéristiques:

• Non-win situation with the support/help of others.
• Anger at being controlled or manipulated.
• Must be in control.
• Fear of pain.
• Tendency to migraines, sensitive head, ATM, tends to be in their head.
• Forceps marks may appear during breathing.
• Why did the baby have to be removed?
• There’s support if I get stuck.

8) Front panel

I hurt people.

Caractéristiques:

• Energy around their presentation.
• Tends to be of the opposite sex to what the parents wanted or expected – the baby moves in the uterus because it knows it’s the opposite.
• Very rebellious or wanting to do the opposite of everyone else.
• Tends to have neck and shoulder pain and a wry smile.
• Tends to get lost.

9) Dry Birth

Caractéristiques:

• Skin irritation.
• Irritable, angry, explodes, short-tempered.
• Slow, leaky dry births – start calmly, then suddenly explode.

10) Low placenta

The help, my support leaves without me. I can’t get out and make it.

B) Time of birth

1) Early / Premature

I’m not enough. I’m too small. I can’t do it. I’m too weak, powerless.

Caractéristiques:

• Show up early. Problems with time.
• Can overcompensate for weaknesses and become a resilient, self-reliant person who doesn’t need anyone’s help.
• May have been fed intravenously and restrained so he can’t dislodge it –> I can’t move. May have been put in isolation.
• Ask them why they came out early (uterus was toxic, placenta not working? In other words, the uterus isn’t a safe place) Why did you want to come out early?
• May develop allergies, sensitivities to the world, difficulty finding a safe place.
• Get started quickly, adopt quickly and perform well.

2) Incubator

I can look but I can’t touch. I need attention. I’m separated. I can’t get true love; it’s a replacement. I have to be alone a lot.

Caractéristiques:

• Psychic wall of protection.
• Touch is painful or may desire/implore touch.
• A fascination with machines, computers, televisions, cubicles and small offices.
• Like to spend time in cars.
• Deep sadness, anguish, depression, nostalgia for mother.
• Deeper connection to the source because not so much external contact.
• May enjoy spending a lot of time in cars or working in cabs.

3) Late

I’m not ready. I’m too much (so big/fat). I’ve hurt people.

Caractéristiques:

• Often have timing problems, especially late.
• Pourquoi sont-ils sortis en retard ?
• Can take time to do things right.

4) Rapid birth

They’re not ready for me. I’m not ready for them. It’s wrong to be fast.

Caractéristiques:

• Tend to be impatient.
• Don’t do things by halves.
• May have integration problems or take a long time to integrate.
• Make decisions quickly, act on the spur of the moment.
• Can get things done quickly.

5) Long working hours

Life is hard. I can’t get through. It’s just too much.

Caractéristiques:

• Can experience a terror with no way out.
• Communication – can speak continuously and non-stop.
• High capacity for patience and tolerance.
• Can overcompensate by pushing things like a steamroller.
• Persevering.

6) Hold

I can’t have what I want when I want it. People aren’t there for me. People are always trying to stop me. I’m going to do things my way at my pace. Don’t tell me what to do.

Caractéristiques:

• Feel restrained and controlled.
• Think they have to pierce something.
• Feel angry.
• Energy around timing.
• Think they’re always compromising – flexibility becomes rigid.
• Nobody holds them back. They hold themselves back.
• Patients.

7) Exhaustion during childbirth

Can take a long time to get things done. Why did they go out late?

8) Interrupted work

Caractéristiques:

• Tends to interrupt or feel interrupted.
• Frustration.
• Stop and start.

9) False work / False alarm

A tendance à faire des faux départs. Impatience. Manque d’engagement à 100 %. Indécision.

C) BIRTH-RELATED PROBLEMS

1) Unwanted / unplanned pregnancy

I’m not wanted. I’m unworthy. I shouldn’t be here. I am an accident. I am wanted for the wrong reasons. I am a burden.

Caractéristiques:

• Feels rejected and rejects others – pre-rejection behavior.
• Try to please.
• Planning problem.
• Accident-prone.
• Do not integrate, invisible.
• Can be suicidal.
• Things happen by accident (this can also be beneficial).
• Find deeper plans / musings.

2) Illegitimate

As for the unexpected, I’m embarrassed.

Caractéristiques:

• Shame, guilt, indignity.
• Problems doing things legally, by the book (taxes, business).
• Hiding, not wanting to be seen, sneaky.
• Can also be a private detective – curious / in search of the truth.
• Self-sufficient.

3) Bad sex

I’m a disappointment (as a boy; as a girl). I’m wrong. Yet I’m quite good (as a man/as a woman)

Caractéristiques:

• Confusion about sexual identity.
• Healing around male/female issues can develop with both the male and female side.

4) Previous miscarriage / abortion

Caractéristiques:

• I’m the bad one. I am a fake/not real. I must die in order to live. I am a success. I can succeed at whatever I want.
• Fear of dying.
• Give me your proof.
• Can be the same spirit returning in this incarnation.

5) Attempted abortion

As for the unexpected / unplanned. They decided to keep me.

Caractéristiques:

• Difficulty trusting people.
• Can attract someone trying to hurt or kill them.
• Being a burden.
• Strong death drive.
• Can develop diseases and tumors.

6) Twins

First twin: May feel expelled or guilty for being the first/leaving the twin. Often a leader.

Second twin: May feel angry at being abandoned. Tends to be second best. May seem insignificant or invisible. May hold back.

Caractéristiques:

• There’s someone else there for me, and with me.
• If one twin died in the womb and another survived, there can be guilt and the thought that I should live.
• Someone has to die. I’m all alone, longing for someone who’s supposed to be there.
• If one twin is reborn through breathing, the other will often go through the experience physically, even if they are geographically separated.
• Absorbed twin: one twin dies and the cells are actually absorbed by the other fetus.

7) Separated / adopted

I am unwanted. I am alone. I must be separate to survive. There’s something wrong with me. I have to do it on my own.

Caractéristiques:

• Sadness, grief, separation anxiety, longing, depression, abandonment wounds.
• Can take more than ten sessions, can be much longer, for healing. Needs a lot of compassion.

8) Mother ill / in danger

• I am a burden. I’m unimportant. People aren’t there for me. I hurt other women.

9) Absent father

Men aren’t there for me.

I hope this blog post has helped you identify some consequences or challenges to transcend following your birth.
I’m curious. You can write in the comments about the different variables of your birth.

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Conclusion

Remember, no matter what deck of cards you’re born with, it’s important to know that it’s your responsibility to walk your own personal path of healing. Have fun with it!

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